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Early in
April, 2001, The Denver Post printed an article by Mark Obmascik about the
"growing wimpiness of modern playgrounds," contrasting American
attitudes with the Japanese. Then, in TIME Magazine of April 30, 2001, they
spent a goodly number of pages on the subject of childhood, including a piece
entitled "The Quest for a Superkid." Obviously, something is bubbling
near the top of the social unconscious about some stupid things we're doing to
our posterity.
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Sending your child out to play is serious business. Ask
any parent who's done it, then heard a cry that wraps primitive fear around his
stomach like a hungry python. Most of the time, it turns out to be nothing, but
sometimes — oh, the curse of "sometimes"
— it's worse, even much, much worse. No wonder we hesitate, especially these
days when the media touts every mugger & child-molester far out of
proportion to the actual risk.
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our children a disservice by coddling them
short-term and neglecting them long-term, very much in parallel with
Corporate America's short-sighted attitudes toward profits versus
customer satisfaction. We are, in effect, sheltering our children from
life itself.
I've shared in the raising of four children,
two of my own & two of my wife's, so I don't speak lightly about
this issue. I've encouraged each of those precious charges to try new
things while allowing failure, but nothing too severe. Of course, the
definition of "too severe" changed as the children grew in age
and capability until, too soon, I could do nothing but give love,
provide sanctuary if needed, and offer advice when (and if ever) asked
for. So it's been since time immemorial. For all our advances, we should
acknowledge that some rules don't change. |
An
aside: Oddly, many of the same people who don't want to risk their
children's knees at playgrounds also carry them around in safety seats
inside SUVs, all "safe & sound." Yet they ignore the impact
of these same vehicles —
& many other aspects of their consuming lifestyles —
on our ecosphere, possibly condemning these same children —
& their children —
to long-term misery if the Greenhouse Effect does indeed bring worse
weather, inundated coastlines, spreading populations of tropical insects
& the diseases they carry, &c. Continuing the example these
parents learn at work, in the corporate "salt-mines."
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The playground, whether the informality of a backyard
or a wealth of pre-fab forts & bridges, provides the arena for the earliest
of these adventures. The danger may be higher because the kids are new to
themselves & to this world, but the rewards are even greater. These moments,
as Lady Allen of Hurtwood says, enable "[c]hildren [to] come to terms with
the world, wrestle with their picture of it, and reform these pictures
constantly, through those adventures of imagination we call play."
Exactly! When I found this quote in the "Adventure
Playground" pattern in A Pattern Language, by Christopher Alexander
& the Center for Environmental Structure at UC Berkley, I added to my
already considerable respect for the insight into humanity provided by this
work, along with its companion A Timeless Way of Building. Adventure
Playgrounds are places "with raw materials of all kinds -- nets, boxes,
barrels, trees, ropes, simple tools, frames, grass, and water -- where children
can create and recreate playgrounds of their own." Not soft, cushiony,
prefab places that rob imagination, but enable it. I recognized that this
pattern had to play a significant role in my book Seeds
of Disaster.
| My main
protagonist Phoebe leads the delivery of public- safety services to a
city of more than a million people; she's more a project manager (called
a "tactician" in the book's society) than a chief of police,
though people do call her that. I didn't want Phoebe to rise to this
level of re- sponsibility by the more familiar channels of police work
or even fire fighting, so I built a career for her in the third branch
of service, counseling. I also needed some incident in her past that
turned Phoebe into a workoholic, devoting all of her time &
considerable personal resources to the job, something to do with a
failed relationship.
A failed love affair can do this to a person
better than most anything else. Easy to imagine the affair (Phoebe is,
after all, an attractive, intelligent woman. But how to end it
tragically? Adventure Playgrounds, like my own philosophy of
child-rearing above, do entail risk. In fact, Phoebe notes in Chapter
3 that risk was a
necessary part of challenge. Each tactician trained to manage these
risks appropriately, predicated on the age and skill of the children
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Actually,
I extended CES' pattern when I encountered the opinion of Stephen
Talbott, author of The Future Does Not Compute: Transcending the
Machines in our Midst and editor of Netfuture. He advised that
we should be giving our children "a broad-based education in the
human and physical worlds," something the right kind of playgrounds
do very well. Talbott, along with educational psycho- logist Jane Healy
and the Austrian child-development specialist Rudolf Steiner, try to
dissuade us from the early introduction of computers in schools. Phoebe's
society is extremely automated, yet they strive to place their humanity
above their technology, so they obviously would stress their children's
physical & social development before allowing them to enter the
virtual realm —
& its
conceptual, symbolic, & abstract thinking
— that
underlies adult life on the planet.
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Simple enough then: give Phoebe's lover a child,
depressed by the loss of his mother, put that despondent child into Phoebe's
playground during off-hours, put Phoebe into the arms of her lover when the
child dies, et voilà: a guilt-ridden over-achiever
always striving to mother-hen her whole city.
Such manipulation may lie at the heart of a convincing
tale, but it also connects those characters to the very real concerns of their
contemporary audience. How do we balance the tactical safety of our own children
with the strategic safety of our race? James White, in The Dream Millennium,
gives a glimpse of a sapient race who cultivate the play of their children as an
investment in their own future. Was he really talking about us, as so many sf
authors do? Probably. We'd do well to take his observation to heart.
Keywords:
playground, Corporate America, short-sighted, Netfuture, Stephen Talbott, The
Future Does Not Compute, Christopher Alexander, the Center for Environmental
Structure, A Timeless Way of Building, A Pattern Language, Jane Healy, Austrian,
child-development, Rudolf Steiner, SUV, Greenhouse Effect, project
manager, James White, The Dream Millennium
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